Monday, November 22, 2010

an awesome weekend at Sitio Malasa and Sitio Mabilog

Last November 20-21, 2010, I spent my weekend in Tarlac to be a part of the community development "Makipamuhay" prepared by SOCC and the Community Development Office together with the organization officers and leaders. Makipamuhay is basically, staying and living there (in Tarlac) for 2 days. Learn and adopting the way of living of the Aetas, appreciating what they have to offer and making them feel that somebody cares for them. We went to Tarlac, specifically in Sitio Mabilog and Sitio Malasa. I just brought 1 extra shirt, towel, toiletries, and pajamas. I reserved the spaces of my bag for the old clothes that I planned to give to my foster family. We reached there (at Sitio Malasa) at around 12 in the afternoon, then we ate lunch, little orientation and went to Sitio Mabilog which is 1 to 2 hours away.

Here are some of the pictures I took during my stay there:

We hiked for 1 hour and 30 minutes to get to Sitio Mabilog.
A tough road to take. Kids in Sitio Mabilog walked for 1-2 hours to Sitio Malasa to attend school.
Really tiring and exhausting but the sceneries were all worth it.


on the way to Sitio Mabilog. Slippery, unstable bridge.


Good thing I'm with my twin-best friend :)
I was supposed to go alone, but good thing, she was able to make it. I am most comfortable with her :)

After of almost 2 hours of hiking, we finally reached Sitio Mabilog. We stayed there for 5 hours, we just played with them, sang Christmas songs, and just enjoyed their company.

This is Jennylyn (Right) with her friend. She's my partner there. She's very shy but very sweet and she smiles a lot when I talk to her. She has the most amazing eyes. :) can you see?

The kids there were really energetic and full of life!


parents with their sons and daughters.
They prefer to be called "Kulots" at first, I was shocked. I thought they will be offended, but they said that that's better. Sometimes they talk like..."Kaming mga kulot at Kayong mga Unat"
Astig no? :)
It only shows na hindi sila takot kung anong meron sila, and how others will perceive them.


their past time, basketball :)


They remind me of two things in this picture: 1. Happiness can come in small things.
2. You look for your own happiness in small things.
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As much as we still wanted to stay in Mabilog, we have to go back to Malasa because it's already getting dark and we still have to walk again for about 2 hours or so.
When we reached Malasa again, we were immediately, randomly distributed to the families who were going to adopt us.
I was the last one, among the girls who was called. Ma'am Abby said, "Diane, with blah blah, *forgot*
it turned out pala, the one who fetched me from the day care were my to-be siblings! 9, 8, and 6 years old. Wala pala akong parents. Then we walk already to our house that was 10 minutes away from the day care.

(Front)
This is where I stayed. On the left side of the picture, that's my bed.
No doors. and it was really really cold that I can't sleep.
Okay sige palusot ko lang ang lamig. hindi talaga ako nakatulog dahil feeling ko talaga may mananaggal na nasa paahan ko! nakakarinig ako ng mga creepy na sounds kahit na naka ipod nako! trying hard ako mag text sa kapatid ko and i was hoping that she's still up, pero wala na pala akong load! at ung sun phone ko wala ng batt! my gahd talaga, namamatay ako nong gabi! hahaha! but I survived! I was praying really really hard...like "Lord ayokoko pong mamatay sa ganitong paraan please, wag sa mananangal na nananatili paring mysterio sa akin kung paano nila na didigest ang mga taong kinakain nila ng nakahiwalay ang katawan."
and you know what happened next? I fell asleep, and soon I was dreaming.
I dreamt of my mother. weird.

(Back)
This is where they sleep. No doors, no CR, no electricity, and scarcity of water.
P.S. naligo ako! baka akala ninyo hindi! nambulabog ako ng kapit bahay ng 5am para lang makiligo! nag lakad ako ng 10 mins sa madilim na daan na may lecheng pusang itim na sumusunod! *hanggang ngayon minumura ko parin sa isip ko ang pusa na yon.
*siguro un ang manananaggal?? hmmn? :))

This is my foster family in Sitio Malasa. with my Lola Eliang.

with my siblings Jessica 9, Melanie 8 and Jayce 6.
They don't have their parents with them. only Lola Eliang. At this age, they already cook for themselves. they get leaves from trees and eat it for lunch or dinner. o diba. vegetarian! taaaaraaaay! :)


This is how they cook. *never mind my face*
I cooked and prepared dinner for them, just a simple dinner: Corned beef, Tuna, and Scrambled egg. It was their first time to eat corned beef and they were all excited! I was also thrilled for them! feeling ko naman ang galing galing ko magluto! dahil sa mata nila ako ay isang professional na cook! samantalang sa bahay, hanggang instant noodles lang ang kaya kong gawin hahaha!


Dinner time! kalaitlait man ang itsura ng corned beef ko, wala akong pake dahil inubos naman nila yon! haha at pinaghirapan kong hipanin ang apoy para lumakas! halos na ubos na ang tangke ng oxygen ko sa katawan ko!

We end the night with a beautiful program and prayed around the bonfire.

Day 2:
Everybody woke up early for the mass.
While waiting, I noticed a beautiful girl there who was about 9 or 10 years old. she was holding a baby. I asked her if she's the sister of the baby and she said yes. Then we just talked. I found out that she has 10 other siblings and only a mom to take care of them. She just went there because she wanted to see us and play with the other kids, so I took the baby from her and asked her to play for a while.

The cutest baby there :)

He's name is Aquino. nice huh? :)

After the mass, we all went home for lunch. I cooked noodles, corned beef again, tuyo, and eggs. After, I prepared my things bec. we have to leave already.

From left to right: Jessica, Melanie, Tricia, and Jayce.
I'll surely miss them.


Last picture with my siblings.
As the saying goes..."The problem with hello is goodbye"
I'll miss them.

Dolphins love freedom wall painting :)

Last November 19, 2010, we (my very good friend, Jho and I) were given an opportunity to be a part of the "Dolphins love freedom" campaign. Thanks to sir A.g. Saño for this wonderful experience :) we felt great after helping out and we had a lot of fun too! :)
One step at a time :)


Jho and I, painting :)


*taaaadaaaahhhh* :) by sir Ag with the help of Adamson students and of course, us :)


We rewarded ourselves afterwards with this yummy turon!



It's never too late to get yourself involve with these things. small acts can make a big difference. All you need is compassion :)








Monday, November 15, 2010

Dolphins and embracing life

Oceans are very close to my heart, along with all the mammals that lived there. The innocent-looking waves, soft sands, warm blowing wind, glittering deep blue green water against a brilliant blue sky makes it all perfect for me. I want it to be my home. It instantly makes my heart melt, literally. Ocean will always and always have a big space in my heart.

Ever since I was a kid, I always wanted to be a diver and clean up beaches, save giant clams, rescue dolphins and other marine mammals, they made me feel that I somehow belong there. (I am most comfortable with them compared to land-animals) that's why when I heard from a friend about dolphins massacre in Japan last year, I was like... "what the hell are these people doing?!" I have to do something to stop this madness! These people are brutally cruel, it's just so inhumane! How can they kill such innocent, intelligent and friendly mammals like dolphins?! I just can't sleep without doing something to help these mammals.

I also read this information from the SEA SHEPHERD CONSERVATION SOCIETY:

The fishermen in villages like Taiji, go out in small boats to known dolphin migratory routes. Positioning their boats strategically, they space out to form a line and wait for the dolphins. When the dolphins arrive, the fishermen drop long metal pipes into the water, and by banging on the pipes they create a wall of sound. The sound interferes with the dolphins' ability to navigate - it disorients and panics them. The dolphins swim away from the sound, and the fisherman maneuver their boats herding them into a small shallow bay. Once in the bay, nets are drawn across the mouth of the bay to keep them penned in.
The fishermen usually injure a few of the captive dolphins with a spear thrust or a knife slash - dolphins will not abandon these wounded family members.

Trapped in the shallow water, the dolphins mill about trying to stay as far from land as possible until the next morning. In the morning, the fishermen draw the nets in, forcing the dolphins closer to shore where they kill them by stabbing and slashing them with knives and hooks. The dolphins thrash about for as long as six minutes each as they slowly bleed to death, turning the sea literally red with their blood.

After the massacre, the bodies of the dolphins are taken to a slaughter house to be butchered. The meat is severely contaminated but is sold without warnings in supermarkets in Japan - supermarkets often owned by US and European chains.


As far as I know, dolphins have helped humans in so many ways. Sometimes, dolphins have helped people in the ocean by protecting them from the attack of sharks.They have done this by swimming around the people and making sharks go away.Other stories tell about boats being saved by following dolphins during thick fog conditions until the clear off dangerous waters. So recently, I emailed WWF and asked how can I help to save the dolphins and I found out from Ma'am Maye Padilla that an AD in the INQUIRER showed that there will be a "GRAND DOLPHIN SHOW" at the Araneta Center next month! Dolphins from Indonesia will be exported in the Philippines and the show will be on a parking lot where dolphins will perform in front of a huge crowd and then will be transfered to their next location. Just imagine how the dolphins will be so uncomfortable there with all those people screaming and shouting and plus the over hotness of the sun! They will keep the dolphins in a shallow pool full of chlorine that will eventually harm the dolphins. So together with the WWF team, we put our hopes up and a lot of prayers that this event will not be pursued. To help, we can do the following:


Kindly contact Araneta Center to tell them to stop sponsorship of these shows:

Ma. Lorna Datiles-Fabian

Senior Leasing ManagerAraneta Center, Inc.9th Floor, Aurora Tower, Araneta Center...Quezon City 0810, PhilippinesTrunk Line: 911-3101 ext. 8313Direct Line: 912-8668Fax: 911-5328


VIA FACEBOOK:http://www.facebook.com/AranetaCenterhttp://www.aranetacenter.net/

2. Contact Department of Agriculture Secretary Proceso Alcala not to issue the import permits for the dolphins. (Note: Kindly send polite letters, thank you)


Also, recently, I volunteered to help sir A.g. Saño, an individual working with other individuals for a campaign. What they are doing now is trying to match the average number of dolphin kills per year in Japan which is 23,000. Since they started in May, they have now reached about 21,000 dolphins around the Philippines, plus Singapore and Malaysia. He invited me to help him paint a long wall in Cubao this coming Friday, so if you are free maybe you can come too! Spread the word and help save the dolphins!